The Advocator.

So i just did the quiz on 16 personalities after reading the latest blog post by the lovely Carrie Hope Fletcher (who inspired me to pick up my blog writing again this year through the #blurtselfcareathon) and turns out i'm an INFJ or advocate as it is more commonly known. I have done this particular personality test a few times before (from memory i think i got all of the ones in the diplomat range) but this is the first time i have gotten The advocate and it hit home for me- especially when it came to describing the friendships that The Advocator seeks. You see i struggle quite a bit in this area for i've found over the last year that i'm seeking a 'perfect' friendship, someone i can trust and be close to, who does not exhaust me, is positive, funny and makes me improve myself. But you see this is impossible for me to expect or even conceive as a want in a friendship because no one is perfect, friends are going to disappoint you in times and that's how friendships roll it's about going through those ups and downs together and still being great friends throughout it all. I have been a bit lonely since cutting off a best friend who was toxic for me but my advocator mind puts up with it because i know eventually i'll find friends who believe in quality over quantity like me and who i feel great to be around and im so looking forward to that.

xx